Do you sense that there is a deeper level of sacred sexual expression that your soul came here to experience? And that you're now ready to unlock it?

If so, you are in the right place. Soulful Solo Sex has been carefully created to guide you deeper into the mysteries of your sexuality - to help you tap into the profound states of sexual bliss, innocence, playfulness, and wildness that are your birthright. And to use sexuality as a doorway into deeper connection with your own true divine essence. 

The programme is designed specifically for single women who know that prioritising this aspect of their lives will nourish and enliven them, deepen their connection to Source AND prepare them for a whole new level of intimacy with a future partner. It will guide you to become your own best lover, so that you can enter future romantic connections feeling more sexually empowered and confident than ever before. 

"Liberating, life-changing, holy-fuck-why-did-I-wait-this-long-to-do-this?!

I’ve been working 1x1 with Debs for the last couple of months and have been BLOWN AWAY by the amount of transformation I've seen from our sessions. The way I can now relate to my sexual energy, thanks to her help and holding, is incomparable to what it was before! 
Before working with Debs, I was experiencing a lot of shame around my sexuality, my desires, and my intimate relationships in general. And even though I’ve done a lot of inner work, the block felt impenetrable. I knew I was so far from experiencing the fullness of my sexuality, my power, all of me. But I had no idea how to get from where I was to where I wanted to be.
With Debs’ guidance and holding, I was able to work with and shift the shame within three sessions together. It was mind-blowing! Since then, I’ve felt this spaciousness around intimacy and dating. I’m not afraid to be the wild, sensual woman that I am! It’s like a brick wall came down, and now there is just a wide horizon of potential in front of me. I know that working with Debs is the greatest thing I’ve ever done for my sexuality. I’m excited to work with her again in the future!”
- Leona

How does Soulful Solo Sex work?

There are three pillars to this work:

  1. Build a foundation of love, trust and safety with your own body and yoni. 

The societies we have grown up in don’t tend to teach us to revere, celebrate and honour our female genitals. Quite the opposite, in many cases! And they don’t teach us to deeply LISTEN to the wisdom of our bodies. In fact, we’re often programmed to override the intuitive wisdom of the body and only listen to the logical mind. 

That’s why the first pillar involves learning tantric rituals that will guide you to touch your body and yoni with devotion, love and reverence, and learn to recognise how your yoni communicates with you. When you come to your body with gentleness, curiosity and love, the body responds by opening whole new ways. And when you learn to hear the wisdom of your yoni, a profound sense of safety is created - you’ll actually KNOW your own desires and boundaries from deep within, and feel empowered to communicate them. 

 

2. Discover and heal the root of your current sexual patterns.

We humans are habitual creatures. We find something that works or feels good, and we keep on doing it. And although there are advantages to this - it saves time and energy - they also limit us. It’s only when we break out of those familiar habits that we can experience something MORE than what we’re used to. 

So in this section, you’ll become a pleasure detective... getting really clear about what is happening in your body in your regular pleasure habits (Tensing? Shortness of breath? Quick movement?) and exploring what feels even better for you if you step outside of the habitual ways. You'll learn to give yourself a deliciously nourishing, healing yoni massage and you'll learn yoni de-armouring to awaken greater sensitivity in the yoni. 

We’ll also do laser-focused tantric alchemy in 1:1 sessions, to find and re-write subconscious beliefs that might be limiting your pleasure and keeping you stuck in the same patterns… from past life traumas, to sexual shame or childhood conditioning that told you to limit your expressive wildness. 

 

3. Open to new possibilities in pleasure - become your own best lover! 

And, the juiciest part! You’ll learn a whole HOST of alternative ways to build and circulate pleasure in your body, which will give you access to deeper orgasmic experiences. You will explore empowering sexual archetypes to awaken new flavours of expression in your pleasure, such as the wild woman or seductress. You’ll build the body-mind connection that allows you to experience the incredible natural sensitivity of your yoni. And you'll learn how to bring a profound sense of sacredness and devotion to your self-pleasure - using it as a doorway to connect with the mystery of Creation. 

What you will receive by journeying through Soulful Solo Sex
  • The confidence to identify and express your own sexual desires and boundaries clearly
  • A new creativity and playfulness in your sexual expression
  • Phenomenally deeper, more satisfying and varied orgasmic experiences
  • Deeper sexual intimacy with your future partner(s)

  • A profound love and appreciation for your own female body and genitals

  • A deeply embodied sense of the sacredness, beauty and innocence of sexuality - including the release of any shame or guilt
  • More freedom and confidence in your dating life
  • Healing of any numb, tender or painful spots in the yoni, to create much greater sensitivity to subtle pleasure
  • More magnetism and aliveness in your day to day life... so you move through your day with more joy and connection to small sensual pleasures
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“Wow, in just 3 sessions you really helped me to name and connect with different natures and vibes of my orgasmic pleasure. In the first session, with your help, I clarified this goal of flowing in between both climax orgasmic experiences and more oceanic surrendered orgasmic experiences. At that time I didn’t realise HOW I could actually flow in between them… but in the third session we had today… I realised it was happening! It was really beautiful. I was having this slow, yet orgasmic experience and I was feeling so pleasure-filled, calm, super non-reactive, flowing in my own energy circuit - it was a pleasure to be around my kids in this state after our session! Big thanks for facilitating this space for me. Thank you so much!

- Anna

Soulful Solo Sex is for you if:

Soulful Solo Sex is NOT for you if:

Book your 40-minute Discovery Call below. Together, we'll help you get clarity about what your next level of sexual empowerment might look like. If it seems that Soulful Solo Sex could be a match for you, I'll share more details about the programme, and you can ask any further questions that you have. 
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How is the Soulful Solo Sex journey structured?

Eight 45-minute guided self-pleasure practices.

This is the backbone of Soulful Solo Sex. By showing up regularly to be with your body in new ways you actually re-write your nervous system wiring and create lasting change. 

These 8-sessions have been carefully curated based on my years of studying and working in female sexuality. They take you on a gentle, pleasure-filled journey that re-writes your relationship with your sexuality from the inside out. 

The first few weeks are all about creating safety in the body (learning to hear your yoni's yes/no) and creating a foundation of love and devotion towards your female body. 

Then the middle section is about becoming a pleasure detective... getting really clear about what is happening in your body in your regular pleasure habits (Tensing? Shortness of breath? Quick movement?) and exploring what feels even better for you if you step outside of the habitual ways. You'll learn to give yourself a deliciously nourishing, healing yoni massage and you'll learn yoni de-armouring to create greater sensitivity in the yoni. 

Finally, in the last weeks you'll explore a whole host of new ways of cultivating pleasure in your body, techniques to awaken orgasm in new parts of the body, archetypes that can help you access more pleasure, and ways to bring even deeper devotion to your practice, turning it into prayer.

Four 1:1 hour long live sessions with me.

Here we'll identify and connect with the highest vision and timeline of your sexuality that's opening up to you. We'll pinpoint what is blocking you from already having that, and do precisely tailored shadow work (a mixture of ancient tantric alchemy practices and modern practices like inner child work and breathwork) to help you to shift sexual karma from this lifetime and beyond, so that you can step into this whole new sexual reality. 

A bumper pack of short pleasure activation practices.

These are mini practices, from 5-20 minutes long. They provide a great way for you to make your pleasure a regular priority even when life gets busy! 

You will receive some gentle body-mind connection practices immediately at the start of the course, and more will be added as we move through the 1:1 work, related to the exact themes that come up in our work together. 

Two 25-minute tantric shadow alchemy practices.

These are focused tantric embodiment practices that you can use to burn through sexual karma and old beliefs super fast. If you find a layer of sexual shame bubbling up in a self-pleasure practice... great, bring it to a shadow alchemy practice! If you hear your mother's voice telling you it's wrong to be so wild... bring it to your tantric alchemy practice! 

Midweek email and voicenote support. 

I am available to answer your questions and offer additional tailored support and guidance in between sessions by email and by Voxer voice message from Monday-Friday. You're warmly welcome to contact me as often as you feel called. 

 The journey takes between 9-12 weeks, depending on how many integration breaks you desire to take (at least one is highly recommend, more are optional). You will have full control over when you desire to schedule the 1:1 sessions and when you desire to take a week off for integration. 

“I can’t tell you how much sexual healing you have catalysed within me! I am fully stepping into my sex magic and power!"
"When I started working with Deborah, I had blocks around allowing myself to be loved and expressing my love. And I knew something was going on with my sacral chakra - I closed it down. Something was blocked. During our first session… I immediately felt so deeply understood, safe, expanded, loved, welcomed, accepted, and honored. 
We released darkness related to sex that my soul had been holding onto for thousands of years. I was BLOWN AWAY. Together, we discovered I had a belief [which] wasn’t allowing me to see and make love with the man of my dreams, because I feared I was going to be used.
I could feel the power of my sexuality return to my being, oozing sexuality and power through me. It was such a release. I felt the light and dark of my sexuality integrate shamelessly! My sacral chakra reopened and let’s just say it was….SUPER ACTIVE! I can’t express how vital it was. I highly recommended Deborah. Gift yourself. Allow yourself to love without limit and to let life fill your being to its fullest capacity.”
- Angelica

What's the investment for Soulful Solo Sex?

$1750

 

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On the call we'll discuss your current situation and your next level desires around pleasure. From there, if it seems that Soulful Solo Sex could be the right support to help you reach that next level, I'll share more about the programme and answer any questions you have. 
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You deserve to prioritise your pleasure. You deserve to experience deeply satisfying sacred lovemaking, with yourself and another. You deserve to live a life where the rich nourishment of your sexual energy infuses and enlivens every aspect of your daily life. And it's my pleasure to be right here to support you in creating that reality for yourself.

To find out more, schedule your 40-minute Discovery Call below. Together, we'll help you get clarity about what your next level of sexual empowerment might look like. If it seems that Soulful Solo Sex could be a match for you, I'll share more details about the programme, and you can ask any further questions that you have. 

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