Safety is sexy. When you feel profoundly safe with a new partner - physically, emotionally, spiritually - then you're able to access a more relaxed, receptive state of openness as you begin to share intimacy.
In this 20-minute mini training I'll share the 7 simple questions that you can use to create a field of deep safety when opening to intimacy with a new partner. These questions will help to ensure that you're both on the same page around your desires, needs, expectations and how you will take care of each other.
There's nothing dry, dull or interview-like about these questions. Instead, they offer you a brilliant opportunity for emotional and mental foreplay before ever getting to the bedroom - you can both have fun answering some of them on a dinner date!
✨ Deepening emotional intimacy
✨ Co-creating a juicy vision for your experience
✨ Practical logistics of safety
When you and your new partner discuss your answers to these questions, you will feel more deeply heart-connected AND more secure that the physical-level logistics of safety are taken care of. And you'll probably feel pretty excited to start exploring some of the desires you've shared!
No more trying to read the other person's mind, hoping that you're on the same page about what's going to happen... no more anxiety and concerns about what their expectations might be... no more misunderstandings. Instead, you'll have a reliable framework to create a genuine mutual understanding and sense of safety. And then, you get to relax and just enjoy the process of opening to intimacy with your new partner!
Sexy Checks-Ins is for you if:
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You are single right now, and want to prepare yourself to show up feeling empowered when you meet your future partner.
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You are dating casually, and want to bring deeper intimacy and safety into the connection(s) you're exploring.
"When I started this work I experienced anxiety in my dating life. It was hard for me to know my boundaries and I always felt uneasy if I started getting intimate with someone new. But while I was working with Debs, I met someone really special, and I now have the tools to show up with him in a whole new way. It feels so sweet!"
Joanna
"I’ve been working 1x1 with Debs for the last couple of months and have been BLOWN AWAY by the amount of transformation I've seen from our sessions. Since then, I’ve felt this spaciousness around intimacy and dating. I’m not afraid to be the wild, sensual woman that I am! It’s like a brick wall came down, and now there is just a wide horizon of potential in front of me."
Leo
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